Posts tagged love
What I Learned From A Situationship Ending (and Giving Ourselves Grace When We Break Our Own Rules) | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 193
What I Learned From A Situationship Ending (and Giving Ourselves Grace When We Break Our Own Rules) | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 193

I share about what I learned from an ill advised situationship blowing up in my face. I broke some of my own rules, I knew better, and I played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. What red flags did I ignore? What did I learn from the experience? I mean, how DOES someone who made a podcast episode (two years ago!) about how bad and pointless situationships are, kinda end up in one? Listen to this episode to hear all about it (red flags of situationships or early dating) and learn from my mistakes so you don't make them. I also talk about how many of us know better yet break our own rules, and how it's so important to give ourselves grace, compassion, love, and forgiveness as we move forward with lessons and self worth.

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Relationships, HealingSabrina Scottlove, self love, relationships, dating, situationships, sabotage, living well, healing, trauma
Play, Fear, Experimentation, and Writing Rules for Our Lives | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 192
Play, Fear, Experimentation, and Writing Rules for Our Lives | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 192

This episode is about testing out our internal algorithms, our standard operating procedures, and the rules and regulations by which we lead our lives. I outline four of the main ways we - in my opinion - create these rules, and I discuss a recent example of breaking one of my own long-standing rules, how that went, and what I learned. What are the rules that create the boundaries of your own life? This episode will give you a lot to think about as you ponder your own life and circumstances.

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Healing, Mindset, RelationshipsSabrina Scottliving well, level up, reflection, boundaries, love, relationships, dating
Consistency in Relationships Creates Emotional Safety | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 191
Consistency in Relationships Creates Emotional Safety | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 191

In this episode, I talk about the importance of consistency, predictability, and reliability in all relationships, but especially romantic ones. Consistency creates emotional safety and trust in relationships, which creates more space for authentic intimacy to blossom. Listen to learn more about why this is so important. (And, side note: this isn't about perfectionism, but rather healthy emotionality and relating.)

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Relationships, MindsetSabrina Scottlove, friendship, dating, relationships
Uncovering Layers of Trauma and Men Who Put Down Women | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast episode 184
Uncovering Layers of Trauma and Men Who Put Down Women | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast episode 184

In this Aries full moon (!) episode of the Claim Your Magic Podcast with Sabrina Scott, I talk about how trauma has layers to it - we can heal significantly, and then loop back to learn similar lessons at a different stage of healing from a different vantage point. I also discuss reaction time (and appropriate reactions) in relation to trauma, and share some personal anecdotes of men who try to 'humble' women - and what I want for us all instead. (Spoiler: Confident, happy people who completely own what they're good at, and who support others in their joy, art, achievements, and creativity!)

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Relationships, HealingSabrina Scotttrauma, dating, love, relationships, friendship, spiritual community, negativity
Final Thoughts on Love Is Blind Season 6: Not Everyone Is What They Seem | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 174
Final Thoughts on Love Is Blind Season 6: Not Everyone Is What They Seem | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 174

A slight detour from our normal programming - let’s chat about the final episodes of Love Is Blind season 6! I know not everyone here will care about reality TV but as a total sincere sappy person who loves authentic love… I can’t help myself. Spoilers galore, be warned!

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Critique, RelationshipsSabrina Scottreality tv, love is blind, love, documentary, relationships, dating
Tell Her: Or, the Importance of Doing the Right Thing | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 155
Tell Her: Or, the Importance of Doing the Right Thing | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 155

Married dudes sliding into my DMs and asking me out on dates - how fun! Did I tell the wife? Of course! Sadly this isn’t the first time this has happened and likely won’t be the last. In this episode I talk about integrity, honesty, values, and the importance of doing the right thing even when it’s hard. This can help our spiritual growth, too.

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Energy, Relationships, MindsetSabrina Scottboundaries, rejection, breakups, honesty, integrity, authenticity, living well, love
Are You Overgiving? Do You Feel You Need to Earn Love? Feminine Energy May Be What You Need | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 135
Are You Overgiving? Do You Feel You Need to Earn Love? Feminine Energy May Be What You Need | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 135

Happy new moon! Feminine Energy Without Bullshit launches today. In this episode I talk about the tendency of many women to overgive and put everyone else above themselves. I share a bit about my journey and how I moved from self abandonment to a true and deeply rooted self love.

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Healing, Energy, RelationshipsSabrina Scottrelationships, love, dating, overgiving, boundaries
Sex is Easy and Plentiful. Your Pussy is Precious and Sacred. Live Like It! | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 129
Sex is Easy and Plentiful. Your Pussy is Precious and Sacred. Live Like It! | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 129

In this episode, I talk about how my relationship to sex and my body has changed over time. As a young adult, I explored a lot, completely without emotion - having sex like many young men do. As I’ve gotten older, I have come to see the value in “the snail method” - taking sex super slowly, and getting to know (really really get to know) potential new partners before getting physical. I realize this is a spicy and contentious topic, and that I may get accused of slut shaming. I’m thankful for my experiences in my youth, they made me a confident and savvy woman in regards to sexuality. That being said, I do think a lot of adult women are having sex in ways that don’t benefit them, with men who don’t respect them. In this episode I talk about my perspective on that phenomenon, and how single ladies can avoid this very vulnerable kind of heartbreak of being sexually used.

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Relationships, MindsetSabrina Scottsex, dating, love, feminine energy, feelings, senses, sensory, self love, self care
What is a Pick Me and Why Is It Bad? How Can I Tell If I Am a Pick Me? | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 127
What is a Pick Me and Why Is It Bad? How Can I Tell If I Am a Pick Me? | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 127

By popular demand, in this episode I explain what a pick me woman (or “pickmeisha”) is. I give some examples of how pick me women act and think, as well as some of the extreme dark manifestations of this mindset and energy. I would argue that most women go through a phase like this as teens and young adults, and it’s part of stepping into womanhood to choose self worth, self love, and strong boundaries instead.

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Mindset, RelationshipsSabrina Scottdating, love, feminine energy, relationships, romance, pick me
It’s Better to Be Alone Than With a Wounded Energy Man, and Other Lessons From My Tarot Cards | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 92
It’s Better to Be Alone Than With a Wounded Energy Man, and Other Lessons From My Tarot Cards | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 92

Have you ever dated someone and felt more alone when you were with them, than when you were actually by yourself? In this episode I talk about a few recent tarot readings where the same exact cards came up, and what I learned from those cards (and, of course, what you can learn from these cards when they come up in your own tarot readings). Topics of the day include wounded masculine energy, the importance of recording your tarot readings, why the King of Cups reversed is a red flag in relationship readings, and two perfectly contrasting Swords cards. Join me?

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Energy, RelationshipsSabrina Scottmasculine energy, wounded masculine energy, healthy masculine energy, feminine energy, love, relationships
A Hatred of Flakiness May Mean You Betray Your Own Boundaries | Secrets of a Witch episode 88
A Hatred of Flakiness May Mean You Betray Your Own Boundaries | Secrets of a Witch episode 88

Hi friends! Controversial podcast episode alert! Do you absolutely HATE when people are “flaky” - or don’t always follow through and come to plans? If so, this may be a sign that you actually betray your own boundaries on the regular, say yes when you wanna say no, and expect others to do the same. There’s other ways to live! In this episode I break down my take on this and talk about how we can all live lives that are more curious, peaceful, and understanding.

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Relationships, HealingSabrina Scottflakiness, boundaries, mindset, living well, friendship, love, dating, relationships
The Magic of Summer Solstice, and a Reminder to Keep Your Standards High | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 87
The Magic of Summer Solstice, and a Reminder to Keep Your Standards High | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 87

Hi all! First of all, HAPPY SUMMER SOLSTICE! After some chat about how to honour this magical moment, I discuss dating dynamics among men and women today, and remind women of the importance of keeping our standards high - respecting our own dreams for our lives and not allowing anyone to bully us out of our desires, no matter how cute they are.

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Spirituality, MindsetSabrina Scottholidays, summer solstice, solstice, standards, high standards, boundaries, self love, self care, dating, friendship, love
No Response Is A Response: My Take on Ghosting | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 86
No Response Is A Response: My Take on Ghosting | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 86

Everyone hates ghosting, it seems - well, except for me! In this episode I talk about abundance mindset, the importance of cultivating an internal locus of control, a widespread misplaced obsession with closure, and why I don’t think ghosting is that big of a deal, especially in the early days. Controversial, I know!

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Mindset, RelationshipsSabrina Scottghosting, relationships, romance, love, perspective, projection
Feminine Energy Doesn’t Mean People Pleasing | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 84
Feminine Energy Doesn’t Mean People Pleasing | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 84

In this short but sweet episode, I debunk a common misconception about feminine energy: that it’s all about fawning, people pleasing, being bubbly, and always in a good mood. Actually, you can connect with your feminine energy and be even more of a bitch! Listen to learn how.

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Energy, HealingSabrina Scottfeminine energy, boundaries, relationships, love, friendship
It’s Okay To Admit You Are Not A Bad Bitch! Vulnerability After Heartbreak Is Healthy | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 83
It’s Okay To Admit You Are Not A Bad Bitch! Vulnerability After Heartbreak Is Healthy | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 83

Hi friends! In this episode I discuss something I’ve seen a lot of, mostly after women end a relationship with a man who ended up using them, playing them, lying to them, cheating on them, or whatever else. The fact is, no, you aren’t a baddie with high queen life standards if you see the warning signs and ignore them. Yes, shitty people are shitty, it’s true - all bugs are attracted to the light, both ones that bite and ones that are beautiful: once we get a glimpse of who someone is, we get to choose who and what we entertain. It’s okay to take off our mask, admit we got played, get vulnerable, and really examine ourselves to avoid something similar in the future. In this episode I talk about how this is unavoidable, actually, if we want to heal these wounds around worthiness, discernment, and abandonment in dating.

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Healing, RelationshipsSabrina Scottlove, self love, living well, breakups, dating, abuse, rejection, relationships, discernment, positivity
Why 50/50 Isn’t the Vibe, Bitter Women, and the Shame of Not Being Given To | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 82
Why 50/50 Isn’t the Vibe, Bitter Women, and the Shame of Not Being Given To | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 82

In this episode, we are back to talking about feminine and masculine energy. I discuss why a 50/50 split is actually often not good for romantic relationships. I also discuss some of what I’ve observed around vicious, bitter women and their shame of not being given to by the men they date - and how these women often will lash out at women who have indeed figured out feminine energy and enjoy being given to. Feminine energy is all about the ease and joy of receiving. Listen to the full episode for more!

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Energy, RelationshipsSabrina Scottlove, dating, healthy masculine energy, wounded masculine energy, masculine energy, feminine energy, money, energetic polarity, energy work
Past Lives, Soul Mates, Twin Flames: If There’s Abuse Involved, GTFO! | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 45
Past Lives, Soul Mates, Twin Flames: If There’s Abuse Involved, GTFO! | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 45

In this episode I break down something I’ve seen soooo often in spiritual spaces - the idea of soul mates, twin flames, or finding a lover that we have also been with in a past life. Unfortunately, a lot of people are soooo attached to the idea of soul mates or twin flames, that they use these spiritual concepts to excuse or ignore abuse, bad behaviour, addiction, dysfunction, or any other sketchiness. In this episode I talk about what approach to take instead, and what I REALLY think about soul mate love.

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Healing, RelationshipsSabrina Scottabuse, love, romance, protection, inner peace, living well, twin flames, past lives
True Love Is Real and Other Things I Learned From Prince Harry's Memoir "Spare" | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 41
True Love Is Real and Other Things I Learned From Prince Harry's Memoir "Spare" | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 41

Y’all gonna think I’m corny for this, but I truly don’t care - I liked this book, okay! In this episode I explain why this book is relevant to anyone with a traumatic or dysfunctional childhood and/or family story, how we can find hope and inspiration everywhere (even a celebrity memoir), and what I love about Prince Harry’s approach to choosing love and saying no to family dysfunction.

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Healing, RelationshipsSabrina Scottlove, trauma, book reviews, childhood trauma, inner child
Who Is In Your Life Impacts Your Vibration: It’s Time For An Audit | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 40
Who Is In Your Life Impacts Your Vibration: It’s Time For An Audit | The Secrets of a Witch Podcast with Sabrina Scott episode 40

Who’s in your life impacts your vibe - it’s true on a mundane level, but on a spiritual level, too. In this episode I talk about friend breakups, and the spiritual logistics of how hanging on to people who are unaligned with you is just you fucking your own shit up. In this episode I talk about what approach to take instead, and why.

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Relationships, EnergySabrina Scottfriendship, dating, love, boundaries, living well, law of attraction