What If You Could Feel Valuable For Who You ARE, Not What You Do?
Introducing Feminine Energy Without Bullshit: A Brand Online Course and Group Coaching Experience with Sabrina Scott
I remember how I used to introduce myself.
“Hi, I’m Sabrina. I have this book out which has won these awards, and I’ve won all these other awards for other things, and here are all my accomplishments, all these fancy people also think I’m fancy! I’ve been in these documentaries! I’ve been interviewed by a million people!”
What I was actually saying - without realizing it - was, “Please love me.”
Long ago, I had been taught that love had to be earned - and earned through accomplishments, awards, accolades, achievement.
After all, we were in the era of the “Girl Boss” (gag for so many reasons; has anyone ever heard of “boy bosses”?) and “Lean In” - women were told through pop culture, media, and certain forms of feminism that women can do anything and indeed should strive harder than anyone else, do more than anyone else ever has, do everything, and be everything to everyone. In all of this striving, I’ve noticed women lose sight of who they are - what they love, what makes them happy, and who they actually want to be when no one else is looking.
I learned to demonize and reject what about me wanted to be soft and feminine. I abandoned ballet for hockey skates. (And, hey, I still LOVE hockey - it doesn’t make anyone less feminine or less of a woman to play sports.) I wanted to be legible to men in a masculine world; I had learned both at home and out in the world that being feminine meant being in danger. I pushed the feminine within myself down, down, down… for a long time. And I was convinced that this was feminism. Many others still are today.
Maybe you’ve grappled with this too. Maybe you haven’t told anyone. It’s not a popular topic, after all, to even discuss things like masculine and feminine energy - the idea that gendered energy can show up differently or has an essence.
I can hear what some of y’all are thinking.
“What? There’s a way to talk about feminine energy WITHOUT bullshit? Are you SURE?!”
I know, I know.
In an era of #bossbabes, high feminism, an explosion of prejudice against trans people, weirdness within the trans community itself, political insanity and the policing of women’s bodies that can feel a bit like The Handmaid’s Tale, a lot of folks have become allergic to talking about gender difference and gendered energy, especially feminine energy. We’re in a place where a lot of the time, women are attacked for feeling or being anything at all.
Feminine energy is often coded, inherently, as ‘bullshit.’
It’s not something that’s cool to care about, these days.
“We’re feminists!”
“It’s 2023!”
“Shouldn’t we be PAST this whole gendered vibes thang?! Everyone’s all the same! No labels, just vibes! Actually, no, gimme ALL the labels!”
Well, as always, my take is very YOU DO YOU BOO! The world is a big place! The internet is a big place!
But/and - it’s time for me to talk and teach about this… in public.
Because… doing this work completely changed my life.
As it turns out, feminine energy ISN’T bullshit.
Neither is goddess energy.
Neither is divine feminine energy.
Neither is finding the divine feminine goddess within yourself - no matter what your gender is.
It’s actually awesome, and it can be so incredibly life changing.
It was for me.
And I’m finally ready to talk about it, to teach about it. My way. In a way that’s well considered, that isn’t cheesy; in a way that’s deep and lived in, and applicable to today’s complicated contemporary world.
And to be honest, I can’t think of a more bullshit, patriarchal, nonsense lie than the idea that learning about feminine energy isn’t worth our time.
It absolutely is.
What if there was a way to reconcile your fierce feminism with your desire to connect with feminine energy?
What if there was a way to be a badass woman in charge of your life, AND relax into your own version of a soft feminine vibe?
What if you could embody feminine energy, instead of running from it (due to fears of being called a bad feminist, or rejected by your peers for being interested in feminine energy at all)?
What if feminine energy could feel safe, easy, and protective… rather than dangerous?
What if you could - finally - connect with female spirits, saints, goddesses, and divinities, rather than feeling super blocked when you try to touch in with these spiritual entities?
What if you could allow your feminine energy to blossom and bloom - no matter your gender, but especially if you’re a woman - rather than feeling afraid of and alienated by it?
I’m sure that, to some of you, me talking about this may feel like a betrayal.
After all, my other massive courses - Magic Without Bullshit and Tarot Without Bullshit - all talk about energy in a very non-gendered way. This was intentional. I’ll always feel this framing is important when it comes to magical and spiritual foundations.
The fact of the matter is, I’ve been growing and evolving - and I’m interested in helping others do the same. Feminine energy is advanced. It’s next level. It’s magic, within us, with our body as the altar.
We don’t have to stay the same exact person forever. We can claim our magic, we can claim the next version of ourselves.
In this world, I see a lot of complaining.
I see a lot of misery.
And I used to complain about the same things.
I used to be miserable and feel confused and disconnected.
If you want to have real conversations about energy, about how to embody the divine feminine within yourself, you’re in the right place.
Can you relate to any of this?
You’ve tried to connect with goddess or divine feminine energy, or even female saints and ancestor spirits and feminine tarot cards, but it feels like you can’t get through – no one’s picking up the phone
You want to be valued by yourself and others for who you ARE, the energy you embody, rather than what you DO for others
You want to access your innate feminine energy, but you worry that doing so will make you into a doormat, and you fear you’ll be taken advantage of due to being a softer version of yourself
Maybe you’ve always been a tomboy, running from one sport to the next, from one hyper-masculine environment to another, be it in work or leisure – and you’re unsure how to step out of a masculine headspace in other areas of your life
You have no fucking idea how to mix your feminism with your desire for a soft life; you might even feel like you’re abandoning your political principles
Maybe you’ve come to associate femininity and feminine energy with the violence often perpetrated by patriarchal systems and rape culture – so it hasn’t felt safe to explore and relax into your feminine energy
Maybe as a queer, nonbinary person, you’ve always felt alienated by feminine energy and the divine feminine, despite your fascination with it and desire to deeply connect to and understand feminine energy in your own way
Or, even worse, maybe you, like me, experienced sexual trauma at the hands of women, due to your femininity – so you pushed your feminine away as far as you possibly could, in an effort to be and feel safe
Honestly…
I have said a big fat YES to every single one of these. And I let it hold me back.
I’d recommend you don’t make the same mistake I did!
If you’re feeling some kinda way about gender, feminine energy, feminism, identity, dating, magic, witchcraft, and how the fuck it all fits together in a way that feels empowering and FREE rather than stifling, it’s not your fault.
It took me almost thirty years to be able to fluidly, easily, and confidently embody feminine energy.
It’s a journey I started with intention back in 2017, when I was 27, back when I still identified as non-binary.
Now, I feel like a transformed being.
What used to be impossible - connecting to feminine energy saints and spirits, connecting to feminine energy within myself - is now a way of life, and comes to me with ease.
As a result, my life is much better than I ever could have dreamed, and its’ getting better every day.
I don’t feel ready to share all this; it feels vulnerable, like I’m naked in front of you right now – but it’s past time for me to share and help others on their journeys around feminine energy. Yes, I tell my clients and students to do things before they’re ready: so it’s important for me to do the same.
The most advanced form of magic is not to simply do another spell or routine ritual, but to shift your entire mode of being – to completely change and shift your energy, your entire energy signature and your energetic vibration at a baseline.
Avoiding this powerful work will create a glass ceiling for many magical practitioners and everyday people alike.
Think about it:
You have all the trappings of modern womanhood – that stuff that we’ve all been told is supposed to make us feel empowered.
You’re independent.
You have a good job.
Maybe you have good friends.
Maybe you have a decent partner.
Or maybe you’re dating around.
And yet you still don’t feel quite like you’re anywhere near to who you want to be and how you want to feel.
You don’t feel like the confident person you pretend to be on social media.
You can talk a big talk about being a strong independent woman and yet maybe your love life is in the shitter, no one treats you how you wish they would, and you give in to quick sex with dudes who ghost you, and you may even spend a bit more time crying and eating ice cream (and watching Love is Blind) than you’d like to admit.
OR… if you’ve figured out the love life thing, maybe you still don’t trust your intuition, that little voice that rises up within you. Maybe you stifle it down, ignore it, in deference to everyone other than yourself, and you find yourself completely overworked, tired, and resentful of how much you give to others who take you for granted.
OR… maybe it’s your creativity and your life purpose, your authentic expression of self, that is missing from your life. Maybe you long to be an artist, to quit your reliable job, and to follow your bliss, an intuitive yet calculated risk that would be in alignment with your soul screaming an absolute HELL YES.
Maybe there’s something missing about your vibe, your relationship to yourself, and your relationship to other people, and you aren’t sure what it is.
Maybe you know you could be… MORE… of yourself. More authentic, more confident, more free, more appreciated, living with more ease, happiness, and self-trust.
And maybe you no longer want to live without meeting that version of yourself.
Feminine energy is all about listening to what bubbles up from within our bodies… and creating the space for that listening, that interpreting, and then shifting how we are being.
I’m still a feminist, and I’ve spent a lot of time on the far political left – which, despite its narratives about freedom and accepting all people – often harbours prejudice against women who are truly feminine, and for any people who embrace more old school expressions of gendered energy.
And you know what’s funny?
Of all the people I’ve dated - and all the people I’ve been friends with - those who were the most cruel and toxic, I met in left-wing, supposedly feminist communities.
That difference, that weird dichotomy, started to get to me: why do all these feminist guys and radical political women treat me like shit? Why do all these normie, traditional, non-political dudes and women treat me like gold?
It broke my brain.
And so, to sort out my confusion, I decided to jump into understanding something that had always eluded me: feminine energy specifically, of course, as well as ideas of energetic polarity and gender.
How could all of this relate to witchcraft, magic, and personal growth? I decided to find out. Maybe those Wiccans were on to something…
This course is the result of my journey. I’m ready to share with you all I’ve learned.
This is what I’ve learned about feminine energy:
It’s possible to experience confidence and joy in all aspects of your femininity.
It’s possible to learn to receive from others, and to stop overgiving.
It’s possible to stop betraying your own boundaries.
It’s possible to be respected for who you are, not what you do for others.
It’s possible to receive gifts, surprises, and be treated like a queen.
It’s possible to have such a good vibe that you inspire everyone around you.
It’s possible to love every inch of your body, and not have to cover it in order to feel safe.
It’s possible to associate feminine energy with safety and protection, rather than fear and danger.
It’s possible to relate to relationships differently – to learn how to sort the good ones from the bad, to believe in abundance and excess when it comes to dating.
It’s possible to reconcile feminism with desiring a feminine energy vibe in dating and in our lives.
It’s possible to enjoy unfurling, blossoming, and blooming into who you always knew you could be.
It’s possible to be so many things at once, and to stand confident in all these different incarnations of your feminine energy.
It’s possible to actually hear your intuition, and let it guide your life, rather than distrusting your own inner knowing.
It’s possible to connect with the divine feminine inside you.
It’s possible to connect with the divine feminine outside of you – goddesses, saints, fairies, spirit guides.
It’s possible to see the feminine as safe, as fluid, as easy to embody.
It’s possible to leave codependence behind.
It’s possible to leave fear of abandonment behind.
It’s possible to leave controlling behaviour behind.
Whether you’re straight, gay, queer, nonbinary, whatever – the principles of feminine energy, and the polarity and healthy interplay of masculine and feminine energy is available for you to dive into and explore. Whether you find Aphrodite alienating or the divine feminine energy inside you alienating, you can learn to feel, be, and relate otherwise.
It takes time.
It won’t be overnight.
But you can learn to connect with your feminine energy, heal your hang-ups, and change your life.
No, it doesn’t mean you can avoid going to therapy. None of this is a replacement for therapy or going to the doctor! You’ll still have to go to therapy, sister! I do. :)
That being said, it really is leaning into feminine energy that completely transformed my relationship to myself, my body, my gender, my spirit, my soul, my own energy, my spirituality, my magic, my relationships with others, my relationship to my trauma and my ability to heal it.
This course comes very much from my own gender journey.
I’m someone who was assigned female at birth (natal female), and I grew up a huge hockey playing tomboy with an androgynous look. I identified as gender non-binary for about twenty years, and I’ve always identified as queer in terms of my sexuality.
I realized that my gender journey – and my alienation from and denial of my femininity, including divine femininity like goddesses – was in large part due to the sexualized attention I received from a female family member since I was a kid.
As a result, I subconsciously associated womanhood, femaleness, and femininity with danger, and with an icky attention I didn’t like. Without realizing what I was doing or feeling or why - trauma survival, hello - I became more androgynous and more masculine to keep myself safe. Masculinity, and androgyny, to me felt… safe, easy to collapse into.
Slowly, I started reclaiming my femininity with my first gender-affirming surgery at age 23, and I had my second, an incredibly transformative experience, at age 32.
It was only a few weeks before this second surgery, in a few absolutely mind blowing sessions with my therapist, that I realized what the surgery was all about, and what it represented to me: finally becoming myself, and finally embracing womanhood, and a version of physical femininity, on my own terms.
She/her, not she/they.
For the first time in ages, it felt right. It felt like a huge reclamation of who I was always meant to be: the powerful feminine, hidden somewhere down there, under the rug.
The person I was afraid to be.
The person it felt unsafe to be.
The person I finally decided to be.
I started intentionally trying to learn feminine energy back when I was 27 – and, after many years of trying and doing, I’ve finally been able to step into the beingness of it all. I’ve worked with more feminine energies, more goddess energy and female divinities, as well as embraced feminine energy in my daily life embodiment, and in my dating life.
My entire life has transformed for the better as a result of this work.
I am no longer self-loathing, I am no longer in any way insecure, about really… anything.
I am confident, I love myself, I feel happy and empowered, and I am treated well by the people in my life.
I experience fear - like launching this course, lol, I am not-so-secretly super scared to do this - and I do things anyway.
I don’t hyper-fixate on the bad. I’m not codependent. If others don’t like me, I don’t worry about it.
It’s been a long and complicated journey. And I’m thankful for it.
I’m sure I’m not the only one who was assigned female at birth, moved into a nonbinary identity for one of many reasons. And… who spent many years harbouring a longing to become more fully, to move into an unapologetically feminine place rooted in power and confidence.
To realize that in this, there is safety.
There is self.
Finally.
There are so many people who this course is for.
If you’re one of them, if you feel called, I hope you dive in.
Notice the contrast in aura photos: 2018, the beginning of my feminine energy journey, vs me now in 2023
It’s taken me more than a year to design this curriculum.
It comes from a lot of learning. Thinking. Meditating. Being.
Making mistakes.
Reprogramming my brain.
Reprogramming what I believed I deserved, and what I was - and wasn’t - available for.
This course won’t always be “politically correct,” but I can promise you I will ALWAYS be REAL.
Everything I teach here, I use in my life on the daily. And it took me a while to figure it all out - years. Save yourself the trouble of learning all this shit the hard way - through years of trial, error, heartache, blood, sweat, and tears.
So, here we go! Buckle up:
Course Curriculum
Module 0: Planting the Right Seeds (How We Got Here)
My Disclaimer: Do Whatever the Fuck You Want
Course Structure: How To Do This Course
How I Got Here (Feminism, Sexual Abuse, Fear, Nonbinary Identity)
Is Talking About Feminine Energy Unwoke?
Is It Unwoke To Talk About Gender Difference?
What About Nonbinary and Trans People? (Yes, Ya’ll Belong Too)
Widespread Contemporary Unhappiness
Module 1: Feeling Your Roots (Who Are You?)
What Is Your Relationship to Feminine and Masculine Energies?
Cultural Understandings of Gender and Gender Roles
Pros and Cons of Unspoken Gender Roles
Control, Acceptance, and Letting Go
Looking At Your Natural Impulses: Where Do They Come From?
How Do You Want To Be Treated? What Do You Want Your Life To Be Like?
Availability and Unavailability
Module 2: The Basics – What Are Feminine and Masculine Energy?
Why Work With Feminine Energy?
Gender Difference: Fluidity, Rigidity, Liminality
What Are the Types of Binary Gendered Energy?
Wounded/Unempowered Feminine
Healthy/Empowered Feminine
Wounded/Unempowered Masculine
Healthy/Empowered Masculine
Feminine Energy and Gender
Masculine Energy and Gender
Wounded Masculine and Toxic Masculine are Two Different Things
Most Women Are In Their Masculine Most of the Time
Aesthetics, Looks, Vibes, and Movement: Exploring Gender Expression
Module 3: Unlearning What’s Not Working
Feminism and Masculine Energy
Feminism and the Fear of Feminine Energy
We’re Taught Being In Our Masculine Energy = Safety (It Isn’t)
Why Are So Many Contemporary Women In Their Masculine?
Why Are So Many Contemporary Men In Their Feminine?
Unlearning Automated Masculine Energy
Feminism, Masculine Energy, and Resentment
Activist Communities and Wounded Energy
Module 4: Feminine Energy in Love
How Feminine Energy Transformed My Dating Life
What Feminism Gets Wrong (A LOT)
The Myth of the Feminist Man (And Who To Look For Instead)
Working With Feminine Energy To Heal Codependence
Feminine Energy Is Protective
Feminine Energy Keeps Our Warning Bells On
Feminine Energy and Acceptance Energy
Learning to Receive: Empowered Receiving As Embodying the Divine Feminine
Dating Dynamics and Energetic Polarities
Embodying Abundance, Rejecting Scarcity
Being Unafraid to Walk Away
Module 5: Embodying Feminine Energy
Being, Not Doing
Receiving, Not Controlling and Manipulating
Joy and Gratitude as Feminine Expression
Receiving as a Feminist Act: Reclaiming Time, Peace, Worthiness
Feminine Energy and Confidence
Feminine Energy and Authentic Embodiment
Inner Peace and Feminine Energy
When To Embody The Masculine
Module 6: Feminine Energy in Mediumship and Art
Feminine Energy and Creative Channelling
Feminine Energy and Ritual
Feminine Energy as Reinvigorated Presence
Feminine Energy and Mediumship
Feminine Energy and the Inner Child
Module 7: Feminine Energy and Working With the Divine
Working With Goddesses
Working With Female Saints
Working With Female Spirits
Working With Female Ancestors
Working With Feminine Archetypes in Magic, Worship, and Devotion
Module 8: Feminine Energy Archetypes
What Are Feminine Energy Archetypes?
How To Work With Feminine Energy Archetypes
The Diva Queen
The Boss Bitch
The Seductress
The Flower Child
The Mother
The Goddess
The Witch
Module 9: Integration and Synthesis, Becoming Yourself
Beingness and Authenticity
Rejecting Inauthentic Doingness
Sustaining Meaningful Change
Receiving as Being
Feeling, Sensing, Flowing
Sustaining Energetic Alignment and Feminine Vibration
What’s Next? Daily Practice
Gratitude and Celebration
Course Structure
This is a digital program.
You can learn Feminine Energy Without Bullshit from home, on the go, from anywhere in the world: on your own schedule. I’ve designed this course to meld to and fit into YOUR lifestyle, not the other way around.
Feminine Energy Without Bullshit includes:
10 Modules (likely 20+ hours) of pre-recorded video content for you to watch on demand, hosted on Teachable - you get lifetime access; dripped out throughout the next 6 months
10 Worksheets full of jam-packed goodness
Live Group Coaching on Zoom from November to May (6 months total, 10 calls)
Private Community hosted on Facebook - most chats will likely be on Telegram, but all calendar and Zoom information will be held on the group FB
Private Group Chat hosted on Telegram
You only have a limited time to make up your mind. Enrollment is only open for a short time.
FAQ: The Deets
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I feel called to help people.
That’s the simple beginning and end of it.
I can see a lot of people who are at a similar place to where I used to be: kinda miserable, not sure exactly what to do about it.
Unhappy and grumpy in their own skin, envious of others with a different life.
That life can be yours, too.
You just have to give yourself permission to bloom. -
No, this is not a dating course.
Will some topics come up that involve dating and relationships? Absolutely – interpersonal psychology, and relationship dynamics are a special love of mine, that I’ve done a lot of research on both as a part of my PhD, as just my own nerdy research, and also, of course, since I’m a teacher who often speaks from my own experiences for the sake of giving relatable, concrete examples, there will be talk of that here and there, because when we shift our energy, it creates ripples and so many things change – including our love lives.
Ultimately, the point of this course is not dating, the point is to teach you feminine energy as an advanced form of magic and manifestation.Will your dating life transform for the better? I’d guess YES! It’s often a happy ripple effect and to be expected when we shift our energy and way of being in the world!
Advanced dating coaching and advice is outside of the scope of this course, but you can expect some talk of dating and relating in the course. -
Yes and no.
If you’re familiar with all of my teachings on energy work and how magic actually works – maybe you’ve taken my Magic Without Bullshit course, or read my witchy 101 book, Curse and Cure: Magic For Real Life – you’ll know all those witchy basics, and how to do magic and collaborate with a variety of objects and tools, as well as a larger spiritual team, to do witchcraft. Since I’ve covered all of that elsewhere, that stuff isn’t in this course.
One of the most popular definitions of magic is that it’s the art of shifting consciousness at will.After a certain depth of practice, we should be able to do that without asking our spiritual team to help us, and without needing to light any candles.
Do I still light candles? Yes, of course!
Do I still pray to my spiritual team? Yes, of course!
But what this course is really about is what I call the magic of feminine energy – shifting our entire way of life, our way of being and thinking, so there is no ‘trying’ – there is simply being.
What this course is really about is energy work on such a deep level that it changes your entire vibration. It’s about letting go of fear and stepping into confidence, forever.
Background knowledge of energy work in a witchy context will be very helpful for all who enroll! -
Well, no.
It’s for anyone of any gender who wants to step into feminine energy, but it is designed for women and the unique set of experiences many women have.
My language in this course largely focuses on women, men, masculinity, femininity, and energetic polarity. In ALL of my other courses and offerings I am very gender neutral in how I talk about energy, this course is the one exception.
So, you have to decide if that is something you are okay with, or if it is something you’ll be offended by. It’s okay if this course isn’t for you.The internet is a big place, and if you’d rather learn about a non-gendered form of energy work, my Magic Without Bullshit course would be a great place to start.
I will not be pandering to anyone in this course, it will not always be politically correct. I’ll be saying what I need to say, and that may only be relevant to a certain demographic. If you’d like me to help you decide if the course is a good fit for you at this stage in your journey, let me know – happy to be of service.
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My own experience.
I am not certified as a therapist, counsellor, life coach, lawyer, doctor, or whatever else.
That being said, I’ve been a witch for more than twenty years, and I’ve been doing energy work for just as long. I’ve transformed my life for the better exponentially many times over, and my life purpose is teaching others to do the same: to rise from whatever ashes they find themselves in, and to rediscover their flame.
I used to be miserable and insecure. I’m not anymore. I want the same for you, even if you wouldn’t describe yourself as miserable! If you wanna be challenged and grow, I got’chu.
My courses on witchcraft, magic, tarot, energy work, and affirmations have helped hundreds of students from all around the world.
The proof is in the pudding and the pudding is me – but it’s also my students and wonderful clients. It can also be you!
This course is my most vulnerable offering yet, where I really talk a lot about my own personal journey of transformation. It’s very intimate, it’s very scary to share, and yet I feel I need to do it, because I know what I have to say can and will help many people who might relate to my journey. I haven’t heard of this exact trajectory mentioned much before if at all, and so… it’s time.Otherwise, I was a university professor for 4 years, designed curricula for required courses (and executed/taught, with my own TA working under me), and I have a Masters degree with a diploma in education. I taught in the biggest auditoriums in the school, to groups of 200 students at a time. So I have some experience teaching, other than running an online course business! I’ve taught workshops in person since 2010.
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I’m a feminist, always have been and always will be – I believe in the empowerment of women, I believe in the existence of patriarchy and gender-based violence, I believe in the existence of rape culture and the devaluation of women by some people.
At the same time, I don’t believe in victim culture and the demonization of all men. What we believe about others, what we believe about ourselves, how we treat ourselves, what we accept – all of that does impact our experience of life. This course doesn’t cover systemic or institutional issues. You can get that elsewhere; discussion of that stuff is widespread and pretty mainstream at this point.
What I do here instead is talk about – and teach – about the magic of feminine energy, how to tap into it, feel it, and embody it, and how an embrace of true and potent feminine energy in a way that feels authentic and real to you… can drastically improve your life.
To me, that’s a feminist mission. If you want to feel bad about being a woman, and prefer to wallow in making excuses and blaming others for why you aren’t happy and don’t feel genuinely powerful and self-loving, this course is not for you. -
No.
I spent almost my entire life identifying as someone on the trans spectrum.I have a lot of love for trans and queer folks; I’ve always identified as queer and I still do.
I actually think trans people and queer people often have a pretty good idea about what feminine and masculine energy are in the first place, aside from biological gender, and these communities often have more complex, interesting ways of talking about and perceiving gender than most outside of these spaces realize.
Actually, it’s due to spending so much time in these communities that place so much importance on thinking about gender and sex, that also informs my ideas about gendered energies.
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Well, I don’t want to add a disclaimer every five minutes I say something – so I’ll be speaking in broad strokes with this course, and operating under the assumption that intelligent, curious people will be able to apply what I’m saying to their lives in a meaningful and unique way, even if they’re not in the ‘woman dating a man’ category.
I feel like most people who really need this work are… women who date men.
Most queer and trans folks have already made some peace with where they are at in terms of gendered energy, so most likely won’t need or want to take this course. I’d say the demographic that is most in need of this work is, as I’ve said… the woman who dates men.
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Of course you can, darling! I’d be happy to have you on board.
Do keep in mind, that this is my only big course offering to date where I do rely somewhat heavily on gendered language, with a gendered understanding of energetic polarity.
You know yourself best, so I trust you to touch in with yourself to feel into if the way I talk about things resonates for you. If you have any questions about if this is a good fit for you, feel free to reach out with your concerns. If I don’t think it’s a fit, I’ll tell ya straight up. It’s.a waste of both of our time for you to be in an environment that doesn’t suit your journey at the moment.
FAQ: The Logistics
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Nope! This course is structured like my other two Without Bullshit courses on magic and tarot - the pillar course content will consist of 20-24 hours of pre-recorded videos between 5-25 minutes each, spread out over 10 carefully designed modules.
The reason for this is that I know we’re all on different schedules, in different time zones - some of us are bingers, others of us like to dip our toes in for a few moments here and there. Since the course is available on demand, you’ll get to learn in a way that works best for you: your brain, your energy levels, your schedule.
Incorporating group live sessions gives space for you to apply what you’ve learned, to ask questions, and to connect with your fellow cohort!
You’ll also be able to connect with fellow students on various course community platforms: Facebook and Telegram, whichever suits your mood.
Ask questions, connect, share thoughts!
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When you enroll, you'll get instant access to Modules 0-7, and the worksheets to go with them! Modules 8 and 9 will be up within the next month or so.
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It’s hosted on a platform called Teachable, which you can access both on desktop and through a mobile app! If you’re in any of my other courses or masterclasses, that’s where all my stuff is hosted - so you’ll have everything in one place.
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Lifetime access, baby! So no worries whatsoever if you can’t dive in right away.
The community component will be active for 6 months.
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There will be 6 group coaching sessions, held live, for 6 months, beginning in January 2025.
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Between 60-90 minutes.
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Yes! It’ll be on Kajabi, which is where the course content is hosted, too.
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The honest answer is, it depends on you, your drive, your vibe, and your current situation in general! How busy are you with work? What else is going on in your life? Are you someone who likes to binge things, or do you prefer to take it slow?
Some students will zoom through the material; others might take a few extra months to get through it all.
Both approaches are great!
There is no rush and no right or wrong amount of time, because you have lifetime access to the program! Remember, learning magic meaningfully – without bullshit – ain’t a quick fix, it’s a slow burn.
I generally recommend you set aside 1-4 hours per week to go through the program and implement the assignments, but I’d encourage you to make a time commitment that’s doable for you.
Learning isn’t about shame or doing chores.
It’s about connecting to our excitement and passion for something, in a way that’s sustainable, manageable, balanced, and healthy. If you can only do one hour per week right now, that’s cool! If you ramp it up to five hours per week over winter holidays, more power to ya.The beauty of an online course is YOU get to decide how to engage, and when.
Your Story
What’s your story? Where does it go next?
I’m offering this course because I believe that your story isn’t over yet. In fact, I believe your story is just beginning.
I share my own story not because I’m trying to make Sabrina clones, or turn you into me - nope. I share my story so you can see that I never, not in a million years, thought I’d end up where I am today. I share my story to show the power of transformation.
I want you to think about your own transformation, over the past few years.
With gender. With your spirituality. With your energy.
Where have you been?
What are your wounds? Have you healed them? Do they hold you back?
Where do you want to go next?
What else do you want to learn?
Who else do you want to be?
Is there a side of you you haven’t embraced yet?
In this course, I’d like to help you get there.
It doesn’t seem like there’s many safe spaces these days to explore these ideas.
I’d like to provide that, and create a crucible, an incubation container, for you and others on a similar journey to learn, to grow, to experiment, to blossom, and to bloom.