Very subtle, hard to pick up on - and I feel the need to talk about it! I fully believe in coaching and online courses, I’ve taken tons and it’s changed my life! I offer courses and mentorship for a reason - because it works! That being said, I’ve noticed some sketchy vibes even from coaches who have something valuable to say. I break this down a bit and share some things I’ve noticed, in this episode! I don’t want to paint everyone in the space with a bad brush, obvi - but there’s some sneaky shit I wish folks didn’t do. I talk about that in this episode.
Read MoreOkay, I know this isn’t about witchcraft - but guess what? Witches are, above all, PEOPLE. And if I had a dollar for every time someone emailed me crying over someone who was very clearly abusive, I would be a bazillionaire. In this episode I explain the basics of abuse psychology as I understand it - the fundamentals of how it works, how people get sucked in, what kind of relationships this can happen in, and some basic warning signs to look out for. It can be hard to get out of these connections once they really get rolling; listen to this episode to learn big red flags and signs that you absolutely need to disconnect. I end with a pep talk for anyone going through something hot and cold - love does NOT have to feel that way! Sometimes the best magic is to LEAVE. Sending everyone love and good energy! If you find this episode healing or helpful, please share it with a friend or loved one who could benefit.
Read MoreY’all gonna think I’m corny for this, but I truly don’t care - I liked this book, okay! In this episode I explain why this book is relevant to anyone with a traumatic or dysfunctional childhood and/or family story, how we can find hope and inspiration everywhere (even a celebrity memoir), and what I love about Prince Harry’s approach to choosing love and saying no to family dysfunction.
Read MoreWho’s in your life impacts your vibe - it’s true on a mundane level, but on a spiritual level, too. In this episode I talk about friend breakups, and the spiritual logistics of how hanging on to people who are unaligned with you is just you fucking your own shit up. In this episode I talk about what approach to take instead, and why.
Read MoreHot take: feminine energy is protective. It took me A LONG TIME to connect with and embody feminine energy, as a lifelong nonbinary person who finally claimed womanhood last year - and learning feminine energy has been one of the best, most empowering, and transformative things I’ve ever done. I’ve also learned that it’s been quite protective against bad people, manipulation, abuse, and unhealthy relational dynamics. In this episode I explain a little about the why and how.
Read MoreWhew ok this is a big but very important topic! In this episode, I discuss common behaviours done by manipulators and compare them to how healthy people behave in the same situations. Manipulation can be very sneaky and hard to spot, that’s why it’s often so successful and can be so hard to escape from! Manipulative behaviour is also a bit of a warning sign for possible abuse to come, so it is important that everyone becomes familiar with these tactics. A tendency to manipulate is a massive red flag for anyone in your life, be it friend, lover, or coworker. Learn the warning signs in this episode and keep yourself safe!
Read MoreWhew ok - this is a BIG episode, full of lots of ideas that you may find just a little bit spicy. I talk about healthy masculinity, healthy femininity, the beauty of masculine and feminine polarity, and the ways in which contemporary feminism has set women up to fail by entrenching us in iron castles, preserving our trauma rather than healing us from it. I touch on my own gender and trauma healing journey and how healing trauma has also created space for me to connect with my inner divine feminine energy, and to recognize healthy masculine energy when it shows up. Femininity doesn’t have to be scary, dangerous, or put us at risk; it is easier for women to unfurl and blossom in our feminine energy when we are with men who are in their healthy masculine. NOTE: In this episode I do speak in energetic gender binaries - if that’s not for you, it’s ok! Most of my work involves discussing energy and polarity in gender neutral ways. It’s now time for me to get more specific about these energies and how they can play out in our lives.
Read MoreHave you ever been left out? Not invited to the kewl kids’ party (or podcast, or book anthology thang, or conference, or or or)? Well, tbh, same - witchy and spiritual communities can be just as cliquey and rude as any other ol’ group of people. In this episode, I share the only ritual I ever did that completely was rejected by the universe (to find a ready-made spiritual community to plop happily right into), how I felt about it, lessons from it, and what I did next. I also give suggestions on what to do if you feel totally shunned by all the places you wanna be, or like you don’t belong. You got this - I promise.
Read MoreI said what I said y’all! In this episode, I break down the “I’m too nice, that’s why I keep having terrible experiences” excuse - I explain what that statement actually means, why it sucks, and what anyone who feels that way can do in their lives instead.
Read MoreThose long time friends not really the vibe anymore? Trust me, it happens - and I know how painful it can be to come to terms with outgrowing the people in our lives. In this episode I talk about some examples from my own life, what I did next, and why it was the right choice. Who we surround ourselves with - and who we let into our lives - really does matter. In this podcast episode I talk about why, and what to do when you feel unaligned with the folks around you.
Read MoreAssholes! We’ve all met them, and I’m sure in life we have all, at least once, unfortunately been THAT person. Oops! In this podcast episode I explain what I think asshole behaviour is actually about, and what we can do to deal with people who act this way.
Read MoreWe’ve all experienced it - rejection! Maybe you get turned down from a promotion or a job interview, your partner dumps you, or maybe you realize that your crush isn’t as all that as you originally thought. Whatever the circumstance, it’s a “no” - from you, them, or the universe! In this episode I reframe what “no” means, so you can move forward with confidence and optimism - even when things don’t go how you think they would.
Read MoreManifestation can sound hokey if you don’t know what it is - but ultimately, I see it as a form of simplified witchcraft and magic. In this episode I give 5 simple (yes, I promise) steps to manifest the sex life of your dreams.
Read MoreValentine’s Day. Love season! Yikes! While personally I love this time of year, whether I’m single or in a relationship, I know it can be stressful and high stakes. In this episode, I outline my top 3 tips for giving yourself the best tarot reading ever for V-Day - to ensure you feel empowered and calm about your love life, rather than frantic and anxious.
Read MoreJust in time for Valentine’s Day, I discuss something I’ve never really spoken publicly about - the difference between wounded and empowered masculine energy, and how to spot healthy men. I also discuss the power of energetic polarity in dating, and why this has made my life about 100x better. This is something that took me decades to learn, and I’m excited to share with you!
Read MoreWith Valentine’s Day around the corner, I felt called to speak on thorny situationships, entanglements, and relational drama - and what we can choose instead, with some inspiration from one of my favourite tarot cards, The Hanged Man.
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