In this episode, I discuss pitfalls of unhealthy masculinity, including a lack of self control, lack of restraint, and a lack of ability to constrain themselves. A lot of men have confused healthy masculinity with excess, gluttony, and overconsumption, being overly concerned with porn, drinking and eating in excess, following tons of titty accounts on Instagram, and other fast but empty pleasures.
Read MoreThe Devil card in tarot shows us where we are harming ourselves, and where we are stuck in maladaptive and unhealthy loops, often tied to trauma, addiction, shame, and impulsiveness.
The Devil can also hint at dark and spicy elements of life, such as polyamory, kink, and things of that nature - though, unless otherwise indicated in the position the card is pulled in the reading, The Devil often does reference excess, lack of control, and being impulsive and intensity in ways that hurt/harm us.
The Devil is about patterns and bad vibes - unfortunately including secrets, abuse, addictions, shopping addiction, sex addiction, overspending, gambling, avoidance, cheating, manipulation, and more.
Do not ignore The Devil when this card comes up! It's a big deal. However you relate to The Devil, you can heal and work through it.
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